Thursday, November 03, 2005
*Love*
The guy who loves you, can't tell you the reason why he loves you. He only knows that, in his eyes, you are the only one.
The guy who loves you, although he always makes you mad, but whatever he has done is for your own good.
The guy who loves you, seldom praises you. But in his heart, you are the best. Only he knows it.
The guy who loves you, will scold or complain if you didn't reply his messages or answer his calls because he cares for you.
The guy who loves you , only drops his tears in front of you. When you try to wipe his tears, you are touching his heart , the heart which beats for you.
The guy who loves you , will remember every word you said , even if accidentally. And he will use the word always at the nick of time.
The guy who loves you, will not give any promises that easily because he don't want to break the promise. He wants you to believe him and give you the happiest and safest life ever after.
The guy who loves you, always tells you not to think too much, because he has already planned it for you. He wants to give you the best life in the future. He wants to give you a surprise, believing that he can do it.
The guy who loves you, maybe can't remember those special occasions like anniversaries, but he does know that, every second he lives, he's loving you, no matter what day is it.
The guy who loves you, won't say "I love you" that easily, because everything he has done for you already shows that he love you. He will only say it at the special situations because he don't want you to misunderstand. He wants you to know that he really loves you.
The guy who really loves you, will feel that sometimes certain things only have to say once because he thought that you might already understand him. If talk so much, he will feel that there's nothing you will cherish.
The guy who loves you, will go to the airport to fetch you but he won't carry a bunch a rose and call you darling like what you expect. He will carry your luggage and ask you " Why are you becoming that thin within two days?" with his sincere heart.
The guy who loves you, will listen quietly to you when you are mad. When you have finished, he will say " You still got class tomorrow, sleep earlier." with a smile.
The guy who loves you, don't know whether he should call you when you are angry but he will send a message to you after few hours. If you ask him why he called that late, he will say "When you are angry, my explanation are all rubbish. But when you calm down, my explanation will only really works."
The guy who loves you, always treat you like a little girl. But everytime he want to make a big decision, he will first want to hear your advice.
The guy who loves you, don't like little toys like teddy bears, but he will always put the bear you gave him at his bed.
The guy who loves you, while quarrelling, he will apologize although you are the one who's wrong. But later, he will say " Baby, actually you know its your fault, you know it urself."
The guy who loves you, seldom say sweet words. But you know, his kisses have already transfer all his passion to you.
The guy who loves you , if he can't always see you, he will try to make himself busy so that he will not have any time to think of you. Because he knew, if he did, he will keep on missing you.Can't say totally agree on this.. cos guys will love u in their own ways. Some r pretty desirable though..
Thot this is pretty interesting.. pussy guys? or macho guys haa
On over protectionalism
When you're overly controlling, it gives off the impression that you don't trust her. If she really wants to go to a club, she'll go, but she'll just lie to you about it reaffirming your lack of trust, and it's kind of a cycle. The more you don't trust her and feel the need to control her, the more she has to lie to do the things she wants causing you to mistrust her even more when you find out. And it's so dumb to think that holding her back from going to a few parties is going to help her not cheat on you. If the girl really wants to cheat, she isn't dumb, she would find a way.
Also, when you're over protective, it really makes you look insecure and pathetic. Deep inside, you know that girls like confident guys, and that being a pussy will make her like you less. And that might be part of the reason why you feel like you need to be controlling, is that because girls cheat on pussies with confident manly men, and you don't want that to happen to you. Why don't you just be a better boyfriend; If you were a manly man, they wouldn't cheat on you with a pussy, you'd be everything they are looking for.
It seems like the only good thing that comes from being a controlling boyfriend is that you show you really care about her, or at least about not loosing her. Unfortunately, there are much better ways to show her that you care. And everyone including her knows this. Instead of showing her you care by getting mad at her when other guys smile at her, why not buy her flowers or take her on a picnic.
I'm not saying to act like you don't care if she's obviously taking the first steps to cheat on you. I'm just saying that if you know she loves you, then be confident in that and trust her more instead of being a pussy ass bitch.
On Under Protectionalism
So let's say you have this girl that you love and she happens to be really hot. Anyway, I have this watch that my father used to wear when he was still alive. It's nice looking, but it also obviously means a lot to me and I love it alot. Now, it'd be dumb for me to treat it like just an ordinary nice looking watch, because if someone were to steal it away from me, they'd only steal it because it looks nice. It's such a waste: I lost the watch I love, someone gained a watch that looks nice to them, which leads to an obvious conclusion on being under protective based on optimization of the greater good.
::Running away from delusions:: posted by the gir| @ 11/03/2005 10:24:00 PM
